Avoid These Common Mistakes to Win a Rich Man
The Upscale Girl's Art
To a certain degree, I think guys are all the same and want the same qualities in a woman. The desire for a woman with these characteristics, on the other hand, has the potential to develop while dating a wealthy guy.
To begin with, males are exceedingly protective and wary of their money. This is probably because there are always women prepared to make a fool of themselves for a rich guy, and by the time you start dating him, he is already on alert and ready to label you as "another gold-digging hooker."
You must be extremely cautious not to give him any reason to believe that your conduct resembles his previous relationships. The most essential thing is to always be a bit more formal with these guys, and don't make a big deal out of his money, since that will make him believe you're just another dumb girl looking for a wealthy man. This is a typical error that women make while dating a celebrity.
Demonstrate to Him That You Are Unique.
To make the guy consider you as exceptional, you must demonstrate that you are the extremely special lady he has always desired. You have just given him all the power on the planet to look down on you by behaving like he is something because he is wealthy. Never look too pleased. Your man should think that you can readily and often capture other men of his means.
Almost every guy believes he is something exceptional straight away, and men with money think it is all about them. You must convince him that it is all about you and that you are the catch. After all, you are the lady, and wealthy guys are plenty. Wink, wink, wink.
Even if you have never lived this way before, it is time to recognize that the guy does not have all the authority.
Make him earn your attention.
If your guy has to struggle for your attention and feels that other men are hounding you for a serious relationship, he will think of you as the "IT Girl" who is in high demand and must possess some kind of magic. It truly is that easy.
You have just informed him that he can do better than you and that if he marries you, he would be doing you a favor if you cling to him and pretend like he is the one and poor little you need a man before she gets too old. He's unlikely to be interested in stooping.
Here's a real-life example that I hope will help to strengthen this thesis.
Learn from the Mistakes of Others
My colleague just dated a rich guy for three months and did everything wrong, which means you may benefit from her errors. When her affluent partner told her he wanted some space (despite the fact that she was phoning him every day), she pouted and started saying things like, "I know I don't have a degree or a big home." It's no surprise he never phoned her again.
He probably never considered her lack of a degree until she practically told him that she is inferior to him in many ways. This lady basically rubbed her guy's nose in her perceived inadequacy in the hopes that he would be more interested in her. She should have considered how this would come out before speaking it aloud.
I'm sure you've heard that putting oneself down is the worst thing you can do, and it's true. Because guys are like puppies that you are training. If you say, "I am fat and ugly," he will begin to think, sure, she is sort of fat, and the subliminal message is that other people must think you are fat and ugly as well, otherwise why would you say such a thing?
Never belittle yourself, but be cautious not to seem conceited. Have pride in yourself and be nice to others; this will not just attract guys, but will make others like you in general.
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